For those of us who aren’t scared of negativity or are just pissed the fuck off at people telling us how to be.


Don’t get me wrong. I’m all about keeping a positive outlook.

But telling someone how to be/feel/live is an asshole move. It’s dismissive. It’s invalidating. It’s arrogant.

It’s also damaging. You have to move through all of your emotions and thoughts. Trying to ignore them only puts ’em in a hole to fester until they explode into a big nasty mess.